I’m friends with my lover

I’ve always taken a straightforward approach to dating. You meet, you like each other, and next thing you know, you’re official. Seems fair, right? I could never figure out why it just never felt right, whether it lasted for a few months, or a few years. Something was missing. I felt like it was all…

10 Reasons to Never Date Me

I feel like having a little fun with this. I saw the question on Quora and thought to myself, “hmm, that’s different.” I’ve spent a lot of time thinking of reasons why someone should date me, but never really thought of reasons why maybe some people shouldn’t. And that’s totally a thing. Some people should…

Sometimes a girl just needs a place to call home

Over the past few days, so much has happened! I’m most excited about moving, which happened today.This will likely be my last move for at least a year, so I’m looking forward to having a little more stability. And what makes it better is that it’s a place with one of my best friends, so…

I hate holidays

Why do I hate holidays? The answer may surprise you, or it may not. Perhaps you can even relate, and if you can, then feel free to comment. Would be nice to know I’m not alone. You may have already begun to notice, but I’m heading in a different style direction with this post. See, usually…

Why Women Love Being Written To …

Some of the most beautiful writing I have ever read, came from people who were not even writers at all. I have always enjoy being written to. By that, I don’t mean everyday text messages. I mean those moments when out of the blue, you receive a lengthy, heartfelt email, or better yet, a handwritten…

Long distance relationships are really hit or miss

Long distance relationships? No lies will be told: they’re hard. Like, really hard. You’ll cry a lot. Walking through the streets, seeing couples holding hands? Not fun. Talking to friends who have their significant others with them every other day? Sucks even harder. You may even feel like everyone has their partner close to them,…